Charity begins at home
While charity begins at home, it’s nice to extend it in the neighborhood too. Offering to others comes with internalization of humane abilities. Each one was indeed born with them; however self-preservation is an entrenched trait too. Fulfillment of needs of the self is paramount. The limits of satisfaction however vary and allow for discontentment more often that satiation. The grey zone separating needs from wants makes gratification challenging. Nonetheless, self-acceptance and personal growth do pave way for gallant behavior, where offering to the world becomes more critical than hoarding it for oneself. The traits of the selfless may be described as:
While charity begins at home, it’s nice to extend it in the neighborhood too. Offering to others comes with internalization of humane abilities. Each one was indeed born with them; however self-preservation is an entrenched trait too. Fulfillment of needs of the self is paramount. The limits of satisfaction however vary and allow for discontentment more often that satiation. The grey zone separating needs from wants makes gratification challenging. Nonetheless, self-acceptance and personal growth do pave way for gallant behavior, where offering to the world becomes more critical than hoarding it for oneself. The traits of the selfless may be described as:
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| care for emotions |
Empathic
Lucid
Forthcoming
Loving
Effervescent
Sympathetic
Sensitive
Kindness, compassion and nurturance are the keystones of
love. Love is a psychological construct and the biggest facilitator in
interpersonal relationships. Not all relationships implicate ‘love’ in its
romantic context; a tender demeanor nonetheless enables one to offer a part of
oneself to those around and impact lives significantly. The altruist knows the
power of compassion and supremacy of benevolence. Humans are dependent by
nature, thus love has been accepted as an extension of support and cooperation
to others. Love ought to exist within to be expended outward.
Effervescent
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| be the ball of energy for the world |
The prettiest fail to appreciate their own beauty, the
richest don’t realize their fortune and luckiest miscalculate their blessings.
It’s wholesome to love yourself and feel good about who you are. The happy
souls are lighter and feel brighter. They can then radiate their joys on the
world around. They adore and admire themselves and extend that admiration on
the world. The inner self reflects what has been received, more so perceived. Excitement
and passion become the driving forces to action. Feats that lack fervor are
halfhearted and empty in purpose. Appetite is associated with life, creation
and innovation. Life becomes more purposeful when work, relationships,
education, children, and friendships; are all looked sought with zest. In
excess, passion may drive itself to aggression; which ought to be kept at bay. However
the right quantum of sparkle makes the ambiance exciting and purposeful. One must
to get beyond oneself to see the existent brightness and add a personal element
of sparkle to the lives of those around.
Sympathetic
Pity (not an unusually deemed good sentiment) does involve lenience
to the needs of others. However it culminates as an external unconnected
offering of mercy. It’s not something that’s desirable for building positive
relationships and solving complex problems. In relationships that engage
emotion, (which really comprises all of them) it is important to be responsive
to the needs of others; to step into their shoes, see their point of view, and connect
with them. If used frequently as a defense, it becomes part of one’s persona
and helps one on the path to self-realization. If only each one had the scope
that enabled one to look through the eyes of others to understand their
desires, wants, expectations, pains, and woes. Personal troubles would then be
negated in no time.
Sensitive
Emotions are defined by their subjectivity. They are
conscious individual experiences, personal mental states and unique biological
reactions. Being sensitive to emotions first mandates an understanding of one’s
own feelings. If you know pain, you can appreciate the agony of another better;
so also with loss, rejection, misery, depression and the whole barrage of
negative emotions one faces in this ecosphere. One often vindicates
insensitivity through preoccupation with personal plights. Rightfully so, one must
have peace within to extend it outward. The actualized souls have a gift, resistant
to pain and forever comforting; they are the cushions themselves.
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