Life isn’t perfect. Things don't go the way they were ‘supposed’ to or ‘destined’ to or the way you ‘expected’ or ‘wanted’ them to. Not even the way they ‘should’ have been. Life is full of expectations and desires and wants that occasionally stay unfulfilled and unconsummated. And truly, it’s not unjust to want to relish the pleasures this world has to offer us. After all we work so hard for them. Everyone works and toils for peace and joy. Asceticism or self-denial is not the route to nirvana. But rationality is a must. Living within rational limits of expectations allows one to have them fulfilled more frequently. And that fetches contentment without doubt.
Showing posts with label pessimism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pessimism. Show all posts
Dec 7, 2012
Quantifying irrationality
Life isn’t perfect. Things don't go the way they were ‘supposed’ to or ‘destined’ to or the way you ‘expected’ or ‘wanted’ them to. Not even the way they ‘should’ have been. Life is full of expectations and desires and wants that occasionally stay unfulfilled and unconsummated. And truly, it’s not unjust to want to relish the pleasures this world has to offer us. After all we work so hard for them. Everyone works and toils for peace and joy. Asceticism or self-denial is not the route to nirvana. But rationality is a must. Living within rational limits of expectations allows one to have them fulfilled more frequently. And that fetches contentment without doubt.
Labels:
Albert Ellis,
beliefs,
cause effect,
cynicism,
deserve,
irrational,
negative,
no good,
optimism confidence,
perfect,
pessimism,
relationships
Oct 29, 2012
Half empty? Half full? Fully half?
Optimism
itself seems ironical. You have to be highly optimistic to even talk of
optimism these days. Most of us are pessimistic about optimism! The world is not
perfect and that’s a harsh reality. It’s not so easy to believe that faith is
all you need; and that:
This will work
out for the best…
It will surely
get better…
It’s going to
go well…
It’s just
fine…
It’s OK…
It’s not always
OK. But we have to make it ok. The glass has water to 50% of its optimum
capacity. So really is it half empty, or half full, or fully half?
Labels:
bungee jump,
calm,
dont give up,
expectations,
failure,
focus,
leap of faith,
optimism,
pessimism,
realistic,
recklessness,
stupidity
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