That positive thought: 2

The glass never seems to be filled enough. Quarter, half, three fourths; nothing suffices short of fullness to the brim. Negative thoughts seem to have command and control; they rule. Little does the defeatist know about the zest a positive thought can generate. The bicycle, aircraft, the climb to Everest, journey to the moon; all were considered irrational thoughts when they were conceived.. It took determination to believe they could transform to a beautiful and useful reality. The positive thought is characterized by:

Preparedness

Open-mindedness

Self-examination

Innovation

Transparency

Interest

Vigilance

Expressiveness

Transparency

The mirror has an inherent ability to reflect. However if it gets layered with filth, the reflection becomes indecorous. Possessing the knack but not being able to apply it makes the reflecting ability meaningless. Lucidity is a boon; thought, intent, speech, action, behavior and lifestyle would be perfect if one is aware of the flow of the waters at all levels. One is often misled to believing that the world is not worthy of trust and faith. Negative experiences leave their mark if we fail to wash it off. Transparency allows one to look beneath one’s own skin. If you don’t like what you see, you have prospects of cleansing it. Once you have the crystal clarity within you can indulge in self-expression.

• I’d rather be honest and lose her than lie and live in sin
• My boss needs to know my abilities as well as limitations
• It’s better to fail and study again than cheat and fail in life

When you are transparent, you inspire honesty from the world around. In personal as well as professional relationships; it builds trust and stirs confidence. More than external paybacks, it enables personal growth and enhances the emotional and spiritual quotients thereby assisting self-actualization.

Interest

When you like what you do, the fatigue associated with hard work gets negated. Setbacks may diminish zest, but the goal ought to offer the resolve to go on. The light at the end of the tunnel has tremendous power. It seems dim but gets brighter as we near it. Humans are blessed with superior cognitive development, in addition to their need for achievement which drives them towards their targets. If you will it, it will happen.

• This looks exciting; it will be worth the effort
• This will definitely be an enriching experience
• I need to make her feel better; she truly matters

When you are interested in making a difference, it invariably gets made. The cognizance itself is the jackpot. It inspires and offers the strength to transform dreams to reality.  Life becomes a cakewalk and ordeals become coveted.

Vigilance

A study conducted on the physiognomies of ‘lucky’ people revealed that everyone gets similar chances in life; the ‘lucky’ ones are watchful enough to grab them and use them to their advantage. Vigilance is imperative for self-preservation. The smallest animals of the ecosystem are cognizant of it. If one is aware of dangers and keeps a watch, there will seldom be destructive consequences.

• I know the interview is tough, I’m not surprised
• She’s difficult to please, but I know what works
• I may get hurt but I’m aware; I can guard myself

Vigilance tasks may qualify as stressful and worrisome; they are associated with high levels of adrenaline release. However adrenaline in the brain also allows the mind to focus and plan ahead. A little stress doesn't hurt; in fact it enhances performance (eustress). Beware and be aware; it’s the most recommended path to follow.

Expressiveness

When you express what is within, you become more human. Mature expression of feelings is a sign of emotional intelligence. When you reveal what you feel, you give the world a chance to know you and appreciate you; not for what you do or how you do it, but for who you truly are. Expression discloses the core, that’s where the energy of the universe lies. It offers strength and confidence by facilitating an understanding of the self; first by oneself and subsequently the world. The result is a surprising effulgence of self-esteem.

• This is how I like it, I hope you do too
• I prefer if you told me truly how you felt
• I wasn't happy with what you said to me

If you express what you want there are higher chances that you get it. The world doesn't like hermits who stay in their shell; making little difference to their own as well as lives of those around them. Break that shell and bask in the warmth of the sun. It is worth it…