Some connects get stronger simply on
account of the time that they have lasted. Habits are simply thoughts and
behaviors that have persisted over time. Plasticity is a trait that is indeed
innate to the brain cells; each one can change his or her behavior as and when
they choose to. However more often than not, the mind gets accustomed to the
inertia that sets in after incessant stagnation in thought and feeling. Reward
and punishment enhance and diminish certain performances respectively; however
the mind works analytically to alter behavior using alternate reinforces like
negative reward too…
Rewards are customarily prizes, payments,
payoffs or booties that attract one towards diverse goals. Negative reward
however is the avoidance of a negative outcome, which when contingent upon a
behavior, diminishes the chances of that behavior from recurring. For instance:
- If you eat your food, I will not lock you in the bathroom
- If you do your homework and study hard, you will not fail
- If you control your diet and exercise you will not become fat
- If you are honest and caring, your friends will not desert you
- If you cover the driveway before the rains, water will not clog up
- If you take care of your health today, you won’t be unwell in old age
Negative reward in relationships
Positive and fruitful interactions require continual
refueling from both members of the relationship dyad. It could be boss and
employee, mother and child or a couple too; they must use reinforcers
appropriately to acquire positive outcomes from their interaction. A couple can
be nice to each other in order to avoid an argument, employees can be punctual
at work to prevent tassels with superiors and children can behave well so that
they are not punished by parents. The absence of punishment is the persuader of
worthy behavior. It acts as a recompense in itself.
How everlasting change is mitigated
Any motivator is sturdier when originated
from within. The will to please the partner, to appease the parent and gratify
one’s superiors at work ought to be a natural phenomenon. The same motivators
when internally prompted indeed work better; to please the partner because it
makes you a better spouse; obey parents in order to be dutiful children and
work harder to be diligent employees. A job well begun is half done; change in
the suitable direction usually stimulates flexibility in the mind and allow
good habits to get reinforced. These then become part of ones persona.
Everyday negative rewards
We perennially take alternative routes to
avoid traffic, study to avoid failure, prepare before to interviews to evade
rejection and reach theatres in time to elude the corner seats. It’s normal to
avoid bad consequences; thus we try our best every instant. Negative reward
when used suitably can improve connects between people, mend faulty
interactions and improve performance; if the drivers to amend are innately
prompted and the desire to do so is natural. That should be the ultimate goal
adopted by parents, employers, as well as political and legal systems; to
intrinsically avoid bad for each other and society at large…
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