Criticism: Offer it constructively (2)

Criticism needn’t essentially imply ‘fault finding’. Albeit infamously labeled as uncompassionate expression of disapproval and dissent, it is an expression of discontentment and can be presented sensitively, yet effectively. Arguments and fights can be evaded if criticism is is offered with constructive and non-derogatory intentions. Critics have often been referred to as holders of the faculty of knowledge. Those with academic superiority, and socio-emotional actualization know the content and process of criticism to assure its acceptance. If governed by politeness and decency, criticism can transform the world for the better when ground rules of its exposition are obeyed:

Concise

Criticism: Offer it constructively (1)

Perspectives

The 14th century identified criticism purely in the literary perspective; offering appraisal of art and literature. The 20th century saw it approaching pros and cons and identified it as scientific activity. Currently the 21st century is evidence to criticism being a loosely adopted method to have objection, express dissent and reject something outright with minimal compassion. Used meaningfully, criticism is an effective stimulus to generate personal growth and mitigate improvement in performance. Nonetheless a tool is not effective unless used suitably.  The content, intent and recipient ought to be fitting to make the impact. Criticism is effective if it matches these ground rules:

there are bitter truths that need to be spoken
they can however be spoken sweetly
rudeness is not mandatory
kindness is

Concise

Respectful

Insightful

Truthful

Introspective

Clear

Important

Sincere

Meaningful

Criticism: Take it constructively

Criticism involves judgments on merits as well as faults. It may or may not be welcome, but taken in the right vein it can be a tool to motivate self improvement and growth. Criticism is of great value when it comes from reliable sources and is well presented. Nonetheless viewpoints and prejudices of narrow-minded and self-prophesizing individuals may amount to destructive criticism and can impact others negatively. How the world presents things to us isn’t in our control but what we choose to do with it truly is.

Standing for yourself

Criticism

Beautiful as it seems, the moon too has its blemishes. The world has it’s brighter and sullen side; good and bad frequently co-exist. Love and admiration comes naturally to some while scorn and contempt to others. Many accept and regard others unconditionally, while several are callous with the emotions of another. In a world that that throws criticism habitually, one needs to build personal defenses to cope with character attacks. No-one is shielded from censure.