Showing posts with label battle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label battle. Show all posts

Mar 27, 2013

Self-compassion or Self-pity? (1)


self pity!
Emotions
Emotions are by far downright subjective constructs. Pain, pleasure, anger, sorrow, jealousy, nervousness, disdain; every emotion is felt after a personal appraisal of a given situation. For each one of us, there is only one ‘self’. The rest comprise the remainder of this magnanimous globe. Small as we truly seem in comparison to the gamut that surrounds us, we are the biggest and most important to ourselves. We are our own world, we control our own lives, and we ought to care for our selves, nurture ourselves, love ourselves and heal ourselves when we hurt. Self-compassion is the softest and tenderest of all emotions each one needs to inculcate.

Jan 3, 2013

Whose fault is it anyways?

What went wrong?
When so much in love and so drowned in passion, why do relationships get tarnished? Why at the most convoluted moments in life are empathy lost and connections broken? Why does nothing seem enough and then things fall apart? Why is there an end to a beautiful married life? Who is to blame? What did I do to deserve this? I gave it all I could and this is what I got? Why did this happen? How could this happen? Well, too may seemingly straightforward questions and never an answer to suffice.