Making your child obey you

The dictum in life is to be reasonable in expectations so that we are not let down. Maxims also state that when you put in your best you are welcome to expect the finest outcome. And then, laws of physics state that every action generates an equal and opposite reaction. Next, mirrors reflect back at us what we truly are, nothing more, naught less. So the key to happiness (backed by evidence base and science) is to sow the best seed so that you get supreme and flawless crop. That crop who ‘wants’ to listen to you. The crop who ‘waits’ for your command because he has the utmost desire to follow you as his role model. The crop that every parent wishes, dreams, prays, pines for. The crop of the obedient child.

I’m OK, are you OK?

Yes these are such simple words and they make a tremendous difference in the lives of those around us. But besides at the face of it asking if someone is OK, we’re talking about positions we place ourselves in life. We create our  happiness, sadness, troubles, joys, pleasures, pain, profits, losses, make-ups and breakups too. We need to understand, appreciate and analyze the quantum of the impact we have on the world: for better or worse; for others and for us. Once you know your own power you can use it a lot better. To the advantage of yourself and those who matter to you. You want to be in the 'good' position always, you just fail to know how to get there...